Everything has its own time. That includes love. Out of billions of people on earth, you belong with one. So chances are that you’ll run into the wrong one more often than the right one.
One thing about the heart that’s not touched on enough is its capacity to be selfish. The heart is very selfish especially for the person who’s made it smile. That’s why when you meet that playa or heart breaker who was so amazing in the beginning, its hard to let go when things go bad.
Quite simply, the heart doesn’t want to be wrong.
With that being said we need the wrong ones. We need them first to play us and hurt us so that we truly appreciate when the right one comes along. Where time comes in is that sometimes we hold on to that wrong person while the right one slips right through our fingers.
One thing that needs to be understood is that true love is not a revolving door that never closes. It does have a shelf life. While movies and books portray true love as something that will always be there, it’s not. People settle. People marry the wrong person. People make bad decisions.
So it’s important to identify when somebody comes along and treats you right. That wrong person has a tendency to hold your heart hostage. So breaking free of that and entering into the freedom of true love is a must. And the sooner the better.
Have you ever heard the story of the two people who met early in life then made choices that took them away from each other for over 20 years only to get back together when they were older?
Now think about if they had those 20 years back and could’ve spent it together.
My Two Cent on Love 